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Beat Negotiation Nerves

Do you want to feel confident and powerful when you negotiate? Learn how to build your negotiation know-how in this practical video by success coach Eleanor Shakiba. Hear how to strengthen your position by preparing a back-up plan before you negotiate. Learn how to set your ‘walk away point’ and use it to keep your negotiation on track. Build your negotiation skills by learning phrases to keep the concession exchange process on track.

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Win-win or give-give: A key distinction for female negotiators

In the 20 years I’ve been teaching negotiation, I’ve noticed a key psychological distortion that holds women back from getting what they want during negotiations. It centres on the way that women interpret the term ‘win-win’.

At a theoretical level, this term is meant to imply a balanced relationship between negotiators. The idea is that each person gets their needs met during negotiation and therefore experiences a win. Although women understand this at a purely cognitive level, their behaviour often reveals a gap in meaning. Rather than expecting an equal balance of wins within the negotiation, many women operate in ways which allow more wins for their counterpart, than to themselves. Essentially, this means that women are confusing ‘win-win’ with ‘give-give’. This can be a problem, because it results in: Read more

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What is win-win negotiation?

You’ve heard of taking a win-win approach. But what is win-win negotiation, anyway? Find out in this quick introduction. Hear what win-win is, who can benefit from it and what steps you can take to use the win-win approach in real life. A great introduction for anyone who wants to become a successful negotiator.

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3 Signs Your Negotiation Skills Need an Upgrade

On a recent trip to Bali, I was fascinated by a scene in the Ubud markets. A 15-year-old girl was haggling over the price of three new t-shirts. Her mother was standing slightly back, whispering to a friend, “Look at her negotiate.” Mum’s words were spoken with pride and a tinge of awe.

This scene got me thinking about how few young Australian women are formally taught the art of negotiation. Because many of us missed out on vital lessons early in life, as adults and professionals we often negotiation with fear or anxiety. If you think your negotiation skills need an upgrade, you’re probably right. If I was coaching you, I would use three signs to tell me whether you need help. Read more

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Open Negotiations with Power and Pizazz

Do you want to build your negotiation skills? This video will get you off to a great start. Hear success coach Eleanor Shakiba explain how to open a negotiation with power and assertiveness. Be ready to seize the moment when opportunities to negotiate arise. Set the frame for the conversation so that your negotiation counterpart takes you seriously.

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Do we really need gender specific negotiation courses?

Over the past five years, there has been an increasing interest in negotiation training programs designed specifically for women. As these courses become more widely available, questions are being raised as to whether they are really relevant in today’s world.

This article takes an evidence-based approach to exploring these questions. First, I outline the rationale for developing gender based courses on negotiation skills. Then, I describe how the curriculum for a female focussed negotiation skills course might differ from the curriculum in a traditional negotiation course. Read more

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A Day of Miracles

Do you wish things in your life could change? This video will give you a new perspective on how to create the change you desire. It’s a quirky look at how to develop your internal locus of control, which is a key step when taking charge of your own destiny.

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Sizzling Headlines to Fire Up Your Blog Posts

When you started your blog, you were all fired up and sparking with ideas but now after a few months of hard slog, you’re finding it hard to maintain flames of inspiration. This is a common problem for would be bloggers, most of whom don’t understand that blogging is just another word for writing. Becoming a successful blogger means understanding the structure and format of successful articles.

The first step in writing a sizzling blog article is to decide on what type of article you’re writing. Then you can come up with an eye-catching headline. This is what’s going to make people open your post, so it’s important that you get it right. Here are five simple headlines that you can adapt to any professional environment.

Top 10 resources for …

This headline is a great start to a list-style article. Use it to capture the attention of readers who are looking for expert tips, solutions or advice. For example resources you can include in this type of article are articles and books or quotes from experts.

The benefit of writing a top 10 resources article is that it is relatively quick and easy to do once you’ve generated the idea. Find out more in this month’s free podcast Sizzling Headlines to Fire Up Your Blog Posts. Read more

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Write attention grabbing blog posts

Want more subscribers to your blog? Then you need to know how to write great blog posts. Discover what it takes to write impressive content in this five-minute video for success-minded bloggers.

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Authenticity versus social norms: A double bind for women building personal brands?

Should you consider gender norms when building your personal brand? I believe the answer is “yes”.

There is strong evidence to suggest that women and men communicate in different ways. Not only does this impact on how we express ourselves, it also impacts on how others expect us to express ourselves and how they receive our messages when we violate social norms. Today, I’m going to explore three sociolinguistic patterns which have implications for the way that you, as a woman in business, present your professional brand. Read more

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