Positive deviants are people who diverge from the norm in constructive ways. They make the world a better place. If you’re a positive deviant, this blog is for you.

3 signs you’re a perfectionist

Okay, I admit it. I’m a perfectionist. So, let’s hope there are no typos in …

Think You Have Everything Under Control? Your Mind Might Be Playing Tricks on You

So, you think that you’ve got it all figured out? Think again. It’s likely you’re …

Your Brain on Self-Compassion and Self-Esteem

Want to boost your self-esteem? Try a little self-compassion. Research shows that most people are …

I’m a control freak… but I don’t let it control me.

Time to come clean. I’m a control freak. And I’m not the only one! In …

Who Invented Self-Esteem?

Self-esteem impacts almost every aspect of your life, including your confidence and motivation. Yet, people …

Surprising Benefits of Saying “I Don’t Know” At Work

Everyone has moments where they feel inadequate. Yet, most people try to hide those feelings …

No Motivation? Here’s Why

Most people occasionally experience a lack of motivation. It’s natural to lose interest in a …

Should you believe the self-esteem hype?

Self-esteem has become one of the most hyped topics in the self-help world. Coaches, leaders, …

Power up your self-worth with this activity from Virginia Satir

Society is obsessed with self-esteem, but what about your self-worth? Your self-worth is vital to …

Book

Did you know Eleanor Shakiba is the author of Difficult People Made Easy? Buy your …

Does self-esteem grow with age?

Self-esteem is the value you place on yourself. Having an appropriately high level of self-esteem …

My daily confidence-reboot routine

Many people assume that because I teach confidence building skills, I must be naturally confident …