If you’re a self-doubting, professional, your journey to unshakeable confidence starts here on Saturday, 9th November from 9.00 to 11.00 a.m. Syndey time.
The Complete Confidence Lab is the fastest way to turn self-doubt into self-assurance.
It’s a 21-day coaching lab for Diligent but Self-Doubting Professionals. Inside, you’ll learn to drive your own brain, so you can be naturally bold, relaxed and confident. Discover how to instantly switch on your self-assurance and power up your credibility, so you can shine with clarity, wisdom and confidence.
Do you secretly believe you’re failing, lazy or not successful enough? Are your ‘funny comments’ about being a perfectionist not really jokes?
I hear you! I know what it’s like to be stuck in Imposter Mode.
Overthinking every decision. Over-engineering every task. Feeling trapped by your own high standards.
Wanting to change, but not knowing how. It’s frustrating.
I’m an NLP trainer and coach. My passion is helping self-doubting high achievers become bold, high-impact professionals.
If you struggle with self-doubt, I can show you how to revamp your confidence in 21 days. Without working on your inner child or doing cringe-worthy trust exercises. I’m not one of those coaches who spout on about what your problems are. That’s guaranteed to make your confidence problems worse! I teach you how to drive your brain—so you can tame the chaos, speak with influence and be the proud architect of your own success.
I created The Complete Confidence Lab to help people like YOU. Let’s look at how it works.
I’ve been there, too
In my early forties, I was standing in YOUR shoes. I was highly successful and working in a field I loved: training and development. But I was working too hard. compensating for deep self-doubt.
My ‘day job’ was managing a training team in a major university. Plus, I was running NLP classes every weekend and leadership groups two nights a week. I was a key figure in the Australian training industry.
My passion is helping leaders—and their people—thrive
I started my career as the playwright and founding director of The Magic Story Players Theatre Troupe. This was a children’s educational theatre company. We were on the road for five years. That was fun, but also tiring, especially as I already had a good dose of imposter syndrome. Eventually my self-doubt dragged me down. I didn’t beieve the business could really succeed. So I got at job at the University of Sydney. There I discovered my passion for training and ‘one to one teaching’ (the term ‘coaching’ didn’t exist yet). I spent 15 years training and coaching university staff. Then I became a manager and my imposter syndrome went into over-drive. So I quit. I was stressed out by job interviews, so I decided to do my own thing. I set up a business called Metamorphosis Consulting. Three years later I changed the name (oh, the irony!) to Think Learn Succeed. Since then I have:
I’ve trained leaders in many iconic Australian businesses, including:.
On the outside, I looked successful. Inside, I felt like a fake.
Plagued by imposter syndrome, I obsessed over each detail of my work. Everything had to be perfect. I worked ridiculous hours and expected my team to do the same.
Yes, I was achieving great things.
But functioning at that level wasn’t sustainable. I lived on coffee, chocolate, and Nurofen. My anxiety levels were so high, that I was lucky to sleep three hours a night.
Somehow, I kept going. Then one day I collapsed in the street, struck down by the first of many migraines.
That was a turning point. I knew I had to change. So, I turned my helping skills inwards. Luckily, I had the toolkit I needed. I reprogrammed my mind and behaviour, using NLP. You can, too.
“I’m from the older generation of women who were brought up to believe that talking about your personal capabilities was ‘boasting’ and totally inappropriate. So, it was a big step forward for me to be able to say, ‘This is what I can do’.′′
~Sue Woods. 2021.
“Everyone needs an Eleanor Shakiba in their lives—a cheerleader, a coach and a critiquer—a killer ‘3C’ combination!”
~Rebecca Hammil. 2021Let’s face it: pretending to be confident is exhausting. Plus, if you do it too long, your imposter syndrome gets worse. You yearn to break free of self-doubt and overthinking. To stop reading self-help books and start believing in yourself. You become tired of putting on a brave face. You want to trust your own decisions—and know that others trust them, too. You want to BE a confident, credible, kickass professional.
Many high achievers have been programmed to live in Imposter mode since childhood. Teachers pat the head of a child who plays quietly, but frown when a youngster ‘shows off’. Adults praise little girls for sharing their toys, but tell them off for being outspoken (aka ‘bossy’). Even after breaking the glass ceiling, female leaders find themselves in no-win situations. One day a new manager is criticised for being too pushy. The next, she’s accused of not being assertive enough. No wonder so many talented professionals secretly believe they’re failures! Remember, you did not bring this on yourself.
When your brain is set to Imposter Mode, you:
When your brain is set to Confident Boss mode, you:
Which mode is your brain set on right now?
If it’s the Imposter Mode, I have some good news. It IS possible to feel confident and high achieving again.
Inside The Complete Confidence Lab, you’ll learn to outsmart self-doubt and worry—so you can feel bold,vibrant and powerful. You’ll build the clarity, focus and self-belief to make a difference to yourself and others.
When you’re on the other side of The Complete Confidence Lab, you will know exactly how to:
Unleash the power of Complete Confidence.
But that’s just the start!
It’s also a forum for laser-focused coaching and inspiring conversation. The Complete Confidence Lab is NOT an impersonal, lecture-based program. There are NOT hundreds of people in the group. That means you can connect, interact and get personalised advice every step of the way.
Confidence is NOT a personality trait. It’s a habit. Your journey to complete confidence starts by wiring that habit into your brain. Woo hoo! It’s time to strengthen your brain’s self-belief circuits and weaken self-sabotage circuits. Learn to STOP a confidence crisis before it sets in. Rewrite outdated ‘stories’ that drive your imposter syndrome. Master three essential NLP tools.
What sets off perfectionism, self-doubt and procrastination? The voice of your ‘inner critic’. You’ve probably been told to challenge it or silence it, but that’s easier said than done! Here’s why: your inner critic is NOT JUST ONE VOICE. It’s a mashup of all the judgmental voices in your life: teachers, parents, school bullies, the ex you never got over. That’s why you need MULTIPLE tools for dealing with negative self-talk. These four NLP processes fit the bill.
Stop sabotaging yourself with exhausting, workaholic routines that limit your success. It’s time to GET THE RIGHT STUFF DONE. Stamp out Dark Triad beliefs that compel you to work too hard, trap you in fire-fighting mode or turn you into a control freak. Tame chaos and control time vampires, so you can be a results-driven leader instead of a crisis-driven mess. It’s easy with these NLP tools.
Break free of the social conditioning that keeps you silent in meetings or downplaying your achievements. Hone your communication skills, so you can speak with credibility, impact and persuasive oomph. Use influential language patterns to sell your ideas. Prime others to listen, say ‘yes’ and seek out your opinions – so you can lead and inspire at all levels. Get results with these NLP skills.
Choose the level of support you need. The Complete Confidence Lab comes in two formats.
Complete Confidence Signature is the foundation program. It starts with a comprehensive, self-paced video course. You are part of a group of like-minded leaders, who will inspire you to achieve your goals.
The resources in Complete Confidence are worth AU $3,160. But you get them ALL for only AU $379.
Complete Confidence Accelerator is highly personalised. You get everything in Complete Confidence Signature. PLUS, three 1:1 coaching sessions with me and a custom-made NLP mind programming audio session.
All this is worth AU $4,805. But you can sign up today for just AU $795
Feature | Complete Confidence Signature | Complete Confidence Accelerator |
3 interactive Zoom training sessions. Value: AU $1,320. |
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Workbooks, activity sheets and planners. Value AU $30. |
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4 group coaching sessions. Value: AU $1,590. |
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Self-paced video training. Value: AU $110. |
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Daily Shots of Inspiration emails so you can start your day with clarity and confidence. Includes bonus content worth AU $110 |
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1 Personalised NLP mind programming audio session. Made just for you. Value: AU $110. |
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3 motivating, 1:1 coaching sessions with Eleanor. |
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An exclusive pack of 3 Leader Guides to power up your leadership skills. Value: AU $110. |
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TOTAL VALUE OF THESE INCLUSIONS | AU $3,160.00 | AU $4,805.00 |
YOUR ACTUAL INVESTMENT | AU $379Sign up now | AU $875Sign up now |
Yes! Joining The Complete Confidence Lab will help you break free of ‘what if’ thinking and become a high-impact leader. But that’s just the beginning. When you enrol, you also get three massive bonuses.
These gifts are specially designed to help you retrain your brain for confidence and high impact leadership as quickly as possible.
Bonus 1: Exclusive access to the NLP Toolkit for Leaders
Everything you need to master NLP tools for building a confident mind. Worth AU $150, this toolkit contains cheat sheets, process guides, audio sessions, explainer videos, cue cards and more. PLUS, new resources are added each week during your program—so you get NLP tools that work in your world.
Bonus 2: The ultimate guide to high-impact communication: Speak Like a Boss Script Library
Never be lost for words again! The Speak Like a Boss collection is packed with conversation planners and scripts for handling difficult situations, including:
Access to this library is worth AU $150, but it’s FREE when you sign up for The Complete Confidence Lab.
Bonus 3: Free access to my inspiring online course Confidence in Turbulent Times
Understand crisis psychology—so you can STOP feeling helpless or overwhelmed and lead confidently in times of chaos, unexpected change or adversity. Learn how to be calm, cool and collected in tough times. PLUS, how to keep the people around resilientyou resilient, optimistic and hopeful. If your business has been through the wringer lately, this course alone will change the way you lead.
These gifts will speed up your success, but they won’t be available for long. So, stop waiting for the right time to enrol. That time is NOW.
Zoom classes are held from 9.00 to 11.00 a.m. (Sydney time) on Saturdays 23rd, 30th November and 7th of December, 2024.
Regina became a confident, persuasive negotiator
“Eleanor guided me to think more strategically, anticipate the actions of my bosses and persuasively present my arguments.”
Regina Zang. 2020.
Zac got the feedback and advice he needed to stay focused on business success
“A few times I’ve been a bit lost, confused or uncertain in myself about what I should focus on in my business. Eleanor always gives relevant feedback and guides me to a decision that felt aligned. She’s the real deal when it comes to training and coaching and it shows in her approach, skills and knowledge.”
Zac Mason, Fitness Trainer. 2021
Heck yes! Sign me up now!
If you’re not happy, neither am I.
That’s why I offer a 30-day, money back guarantee.
Reminder. If you do the work but are still not happy with The Complete Confidence Lab, just email your completed activity sheets to admin@thinklearnsucceed.com.au. Do this within 30 days of the course ending to get a full refund. No questions asked.
Book your place now. You bet. I’m in!
I’m ready. Sing me up now!
Do you have a question or five before enrolling in Complete Confidence?
Do you have a question or five before enrolling in Complete Confidence?
“For me, a really effective aspect of the program was using the NLP resource called Fearless Change. I listened to this every day for one month and my complete demeanor and approach to stressful situations has changed. I am now more composed and measured. I am amazed how this daily practice has recalibrated not only my thinking, but my behaviour.”
~ Liz Webster. Student in Eleanor’s Mojo Reboot program. 2021
The Complete Confidence Lab is a proven system that will unlock your success. To summarise, here’s everything you will get when you sign up.
Signature Program
Accelerator Program