More gratitude, less stress

Feeling overwhelmed by stress? Imagine if there was a simple solution to combat stress and discover inner tranquillity. Well, here’s some interesting news: just increasing levels of gratitude in daily life can help. I came across a great article on this recently.

It describes a study done on 68 undergraduate students of diverse ages and genders, from 18 to 57 years old. The students went through a series of lab tasks designed to trigger stress. Then their heart and lung activity was recorded. The findings were very intriguing! The students who had shown most gratitude had lower blood pressure and recovered more quickly from the stress. In other words, expressing gratitude was linked to better heart and lung health.

Plus, the study suggested that gratitude is even more effective when you’re already feeling positive. So, it’s as though positive emotions and gratitude work together to give you even more benefits. Dr. Sarah Collins, the lead researcher, explains it like this: “These findings show just how powerful gratitude can be in reducing stress and building mental resilience. By actively practising gratitude, you can take control of your stress responses and improve your overall well-being.”

 

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In a nutshell, this research from Maynooth University has demonstrated that a little bit of gratitude has a big impact on your ability to handle stress. And the best part is that you can easily incorporate gratitude into your daily life. Just take a moment each day to appreciate the things you’re grateful for. You could start keeping a gratitude journal or share your gratefulness with others. You’ll be amazed at how much it can help you reduce stress and find inner peace. So why not give it a try and see how gratitude can transform your life?

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This article summary was created by Eleanor Shakiba

Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference. 

 

Your ‘reality’ is part perception, part brain prediction

Reality. Don’t take it for granted.  It’s easy to assume that  what you see is what you get, but that’s not really the case. Your perception of reality is shaped by a complex combination of sensory input and brain prediction. In fact, neuroscientists have found that your brain constructs your perception of reality by blending sensory input and guesswork.

For example, one study showed that  when participants were shown two different images in quick succession, their brains actually combined the two images to create a new one. This means that what you see is not always an accurate representation of what is here. Simply put, your brain forecasts what should happen, drawing on past experiences and expectations. It then moulds your perception to closely align with these predictions.

This is why you might see something  that isn’t there, like a shadowy figure in the dark. Your brain may be filling in the gaps based on previous experiences, creating an illusion of something that isn’t really present. Similarly, optical illusions work by tricking your brain into making predictions that don’t match with what is actually there.

 

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So why does your brain do this? It’s all about efficiency. After all, you’re constantly bombarded by sensory information. That means your brain needs to make quick decisions to function efficiently. By creating predictions based on past experiences, your brain can process new information faster and more effectively. The benefit is that you can make decisions and take actions in real-time without needing to analyse all the sensory input. The downside is that what you think is real may not always be accurate.

So, next time you’re certain about something, remember that your brain is just doing its best to make sense of the world. Your perception of reality is a combination of sensory input and guesswork, constantly updating and evolving based on new experiences. Keep an open mind and be aware of how your brain may be shaping your understanding of the world around you. So question everything, challenge your assumptions and embrace the ever-changing nature of your reality.

For more details about this fascinating area of study, read the source article here.

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Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference. 

 

A journey to self-actualisation: understanding carl rogers’ core theories

We’ve all heard terms like ‘self-esteem’ and ‘active listening’. Most of us don’t know where they come from or who created them. Yet behind many of the most influential techniques you’ll master in professional life lies the work of one man; Carl Rogers. He was an American psychologist and one of the founders of humanistic psychology. His work was groundbreaking and continues to be relevant long after he died in 1987. I recently read an interesting article about Rogers’ work, which brought this point home.

The article summarises the huge impact of Rogers’ work. It explains that  Rogers believed every one of us possesses an innate desire to grow and blossom. As a therapist, Rogers emphasised the importance of unconditional positive regard. He believed that for therapy to be truly effective, therapists must provide their clients with unwavering acceptance and support. He talked about ‘active attending’. Later, this term became known as ‘active listening’. No doubt you’ve heard of it, if you’ve ever done any training in communication skills.

According to Rogers, the development of a healthy sense of self is an ongoing process influenced by your life experiences. He also also highlighted the role of parenting in shaping your self-concept. He claimed that parents who offer unconditional love lay the foundation for healthy self-esteem. In fact, it is Rogers who created the term ‘self-esteem’. He said this was likely to be high when a person’s ‘ideal self’ and ‘perceived self’ were well aligned.

 

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Rogers called this ‘being congruent’. This is when you accept yourself for who you truly are, without pretending or hiding behind a facade. Reaching this state, he claimed, enables you to be a  better version of yourself and to live a fulfilling life. This is known as ‘self-actualisation’. It’s often described as the pinnacle of human potential, where you have achieved everything that makes you truly happy.

So why is all this worth knowing? Because understanding Rogers’ theories can help you develop stronger relationships with yourself and others, whether in a personal or professional setting. If you’d like to find out more about the scope of Rogers’ work, read the original article here. It’s a great read.

This article summary was created by Eleanor Shakiba

Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference. 

 

 

Relationships are a key ingredient in happiness

Have you ever wondered what it takes to live a healthy and happy life? New research from Harvard reveals that, after 80 years of study, the answer may be simpler than you think. Through years of data collection and analysis, the study has identified certain lifestyle habits that are strongly correlated with health, happiness, longevity and fulfillment.

In 1938, scientists started to track the health of 268 Harvard students. This was during the Great Depression. They wanted to learn how to live healthy and happy lives. The study lasted for 80 years and is called the Harvard Study of Adult Development. Researchers collected lots of information about the physical and mental health of these students. They looked at their relationships, careers and other lifestyle habits.

The study demonstrated that close relationships are far more important than wealth or fame when it comes to living a long, healthy and happy life. This was true across all social classes, regardless of IQ or genetics, indicating that even those with few resources can still experience the same benefits of close relationships.

Fostering supportive connections within the workplace should be a priority. This can help employees feel more supported and less stressed, leading to greater job satisfaction, which ultimately leads to improved performance. Additionally, leaders should look for ways to encourage social connections with colleagues outside of work.

 

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Having a sense of purpose is essential. People who had meaningful goals and aspirations were more likely to live. Efforts should also be made to promote mental health. Leaders should be open to conversations about stress and mental health and consider ways to engage employees with purposeful activities, as this can have a major impact on productivity. The bottom line is that understanding these principles, leaders and organisations can build meaningful connections with individuals.

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Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference. 

 

 

Where do your emotions ‘live’?

Imagine a life without  emotions. No happiness, no sadness, no anger, no fear.  It’s hard to even fathom, as emotions are such a taken-for-granted part of everyday life. But have you ever stopped to think about where these emotions come from?

That’s a complex question and it has intrigued scientists for decades. Thanks to advances in neuroscience, psychology and  technology, we now have a better understanding of the brain’s role in generating and processing emotions. It  turns out, they don’t just come from one specific area of the brain.  Instead, different parts of the brain work together to create and regulate your emotions.

The amygdala, the insula and the periaqueductal gray are three key structures that play a significant role in emotional processing. The amygdala, located deep within your brain’s temporal lobe, is often referred to as the ‘fear centre’. It’s responsible for detecting potential threats and triggering fear responses.

 

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The insula, on the other hand, is involved in both physical and emotional awareness. It governs the powerful negative reaction you have to unpleasant smells or tastes – disgust. Neuroscientists believe that the insula creates links between your internal states, your feelings and your conscious actions.

The periaqueductal gray, located in your brainstem, also contributes to your emotional processing. It is involved in pain perception. Plus, it moderates your reactions to pain-reducing compounds like morphine and oxycodone. So it’s no surprise that it also plays a role in regulating fear and anxiety.

As we learn more about the brain’s role in emotions, we are also gaining a better understanding of how brain function can impact emotional responses. This has implications for emotional intelligence, mental health and even leadership.

If you’re intrigued and want to delve deeper into the captivating world of emotions and the brain, I recommend reading the source article here. Keeping up-to-date with the latest research helps broaden your knowledge and aids in creating effective strategies for emotional health and well-being.

This article summary was created by Eleanor Shakiba

Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference. 

 

 

What’s going on in a narcissist’s brain: a new study reveals intriguing patterns

Are you curious about what goes on inside the mind of a narcissist? A recent research study has shed light on the intriguing neurological patterns that underlie narcissistic personality traits. It provides valuable insights into the complex interplay between brain circuits and personality traits.

It turns out that a specific brain circuit serves as a powerful predictor of narcissistic traits. This circuit involves regions such as the lateral and middle frontal gyri, angular gyrus, Rolandic operculum and Heschl’s gyrus. But the discoveries didn’t stop there. The research also uncovered an intriguing combination of normal and abnormal personality traits that can be used to forecast narcissism.

 

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On one hand, traits like openness, agreeableness and conscientiousness appeared to be linked to narcissistic tendencies. On the other hand, traits such as borderline, antisocial, insecure, addicted, negativistic and Machiavellianism also played a role.

The significance of these research findings cannot be understated. They provide a scientific basis for understanding narcissistic behaviour and offer hope for improved approaches to dealing with narcissists at work and home. As the study’s lead researcher says, “This research opens up new avenues for exploring narcissism and provides a foundation for further investigations into personality disorders.”

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Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference. 

 

 

What neuroscientists say about motivation

Do you ever wonder why some days you’re bursting with energy and ready to seize the day, while others you struggle just to get out of bed? No, it’s not just a lack of self-discipline or  willpower. It turns out, your brain might have something to do with it. For example, sometimes motivation is fuelled by a neurotransmitter named dopamine. This is often referred to as the ‘reward chemical’ because when your brain releases it, you feel good!

It turns out that dopamine levels are closely linked to motivation levels. Higher amounts of dopamine can increase motivation while lower levels can decrease it. This is because dopamine acts as a signal for your brain to seek out rewards and motivates you to take action towards achieving them.

 

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However, not all motivation is linked to dopamine. Goal-oriented motivation is associated with adrenaline and norepinephrine.  And intrinsic motivation is linked to endorphins (or ‘feel-good’ hormones) and serotonin. So what does this all mean? Essentially, different types of motivation are influenced by different brain chemicals.

So why is all this important? Understanding the neuroscience behind motivation can help you fuel states of  high motivation, maintain them for longer and even recover from a dip in motivation. For example, if you’re struggling to find the drive to complete a task or reach a goal, knowing which neurotransmitter is involved can help you find ways to increase its levels and boost your motivation.

For example, if you’re low in dopamine and feeling unmotivated, doing something you enjoy will help change your mood. Or if you’re feeling stressed,  which can lower dopamine levels, doing some physical exercise can help increase it. So the next time you’re feeling unmotivated, remember that your brain chemistry is playing a role.  Most importantly, you can take steps to fuel it and reach your full potential.

Four steps to try today

  1. Focus on your One Big Goal. This is a goal that matters to you, so focusing on it will increase your dopamine levels and keep you motivated.
  2. Talk to people who inspire you. Positive social interactions can increase serotonin levels, leading to increased motivation.
  3. Break tasks into smaller chunks: This creates multiple moments of achievement, which can trigger dopamine release.
  4. Savour some chocolate. This is my favourite, so I had to include it in this list. Just don’t overdo it! Dark chocolate contains flavonoids that can boost dopamine levels.

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Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference. 

 

How your brain drives empathy

Empathy is an incredible force, granting you the power to connect with others on both an emotional and intellectual level. It narrows the gap between individuals, promoting social unity and cohesion. If you’re interested in how this happens, here are some key points from an article about the parts of your brain involved in feeling empathy.

Mirror neurons play an important role in empathy. These fascinating neurons respond to others’ movements, expressions and actions – and help connect with and seem to experience the same sensations as them.

This process of mirroring starts during infancy, when babies observe their caregivers’ faces. By mimicking, infants learn to decipher adults’ gestures and facial expressions. This sets them up to recognise and respond to others’ emotions.

 

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In addition to mirror neurons, being empathic also involves using your prefrontal cortex (PFC). This is responsible for regulating social behaviour and understanding others’ perspectives. The anterior insula is also involved in processing emotional experiences. It helps you differentiate between your own emotions and those of others.

Understanding the neurobiological bases of empathy has significant implications  for your professional life. Working on your emotional intelligence and empathy can improve your relationships with co-workers, clients and customers. It will make you more influential, impactful and respected.

Read the original article for more information about your brain on empathy here.

This article summary was created by Eleanor Shakiba

Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference. 

 

 

Dna versus outlook: what science tells us about happiness

Have you ever wondered what the secret to happiness is? The ABC News article, “The Science of Happiness: What Makes People Happy,” dives deep into exploring what it is that makes us happy, and how business leaders can apply its findings to their own lives.

The article starts by looking at a study of identical twins raised in the same household who reported different levels of happiness. The study found that 40% of our happiness is within our control, and not predetermined by factors such as genetics or environment. It then goes on to explore the science behind why we feel happy, looking at research from neuroscience and psychological studies. It suggests that positive emotions such as contentment come from connecting with those around us, performing meaningful activities or work, setting achievable goals and challenges for ourselves, and taking care of our physical and mental health.

This article provides helpful insights for business leaders interested in improving employee satisfaction and productivity. Knowing that our level of happiness is largely within our own control should be empowering for managers and supervisors, reminding them that they have the power to make positive changes in their team’s work lives.  Encouraging employees to set achievable goals, taking regular breaks and engaging in meaningful conversations with colleagues are all simple actions that can have a positive impact on workplace satisfaction and employee engagement

Ultimately, the science of happiness is complex and individualised. However, understanding what makes us happy on a deeper level can help business leaders create more productive and

 

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Encouraging collaboration between employees, providing challenging tasks and goals while also offering support when needed, as well as promoting physical activity like yoga or meditation classes during lunch breaks can all help to create a happier workplace environment which will ultimately lead to higher job satisfaction amongst your workers.

In conclusion, while the science of happiness can be complex and unique to each individual, understanding its principles can provide helpful insights for business leaders looking to improve their team’s satisfaction and productivity. Encouraging meaningful conversations with colleagues, setting achievable goals together, and taking regular breaks are all simple ways business leaders can use these insights to.

Offering tools such as goal-setting plans, tips on creating effective teams, motivation techniques and stress management strategies this service is sure to give any manager or supervisor the resources they need to build an engaging workplace where employees feel valued and motivated.

Find out more in the original article here: https://abcnews.go.com/Health/story?id=4115033&page=1

This article summary was created by Eleanor Shakiba

Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference. 

 

 

A short history of positive psychology

How does the science of happiness relate to business owners and supervisors? According to Harvard Magazine, it’s all about creating a positive work environment.

The article cites a study that found happy employees are more productive and take fewer sick days. It also points out that happy employees are more likely to be innovative and come up with new ideas.

So how can you create a positive work environment? The article offers several tips, including:

Make sure employees feel appreciated.  Regularly give feedback on their performance and provide recognition for their work.

Encourage collaboration. Allow employees to work together and share ideas. This helps them feel valued, which leads to a more positive workplace.

Provide clear goals and expectations. Helping employees set realistic goals helps them stay motivated and focused on their work.

Foster trust between management and staff members. Show that you care about  your employees by listening to their ideas and being open to new ways of doing things.

Create a comfortable environment. Make sure employees have the tools, resources and support they need to do their jobs well

 

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Finally, don’t forget about having fun in the workplace! Incorporate activities into the workplace that will help everyone

Encourage collaboration among co-workers.  Working in teams can help foster creativity and build relationships that will make employees feel more connected to the company.

Create a sense of purpose in your work environment.  Communicate the company’s mission and values to employees so that they feel invested in the success of the organisation.

Foster open communication between supervisors and workers. Let them know their opinions matter. By creating a positive work environment, you will be able to reap the rewards of happier and more productive employees.

Provide opportunities for training and development.   Investing in your employees will help them to stay on top of industry trends and become better at what they do. It will also show that you value their contributions and are invested in their success.

If you’re a business owner or supervisor, these are all things you should keep in mind. Creating a happy, productive work environment can be challenging, but it’s definitely worth the effort.

Find out more in the original article here: https://www.harvardmagazine.com/2007/01/the-science-of-happiness.html

This article summary was created by Eleanor Shakiba

Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference.