How to be a leader who makes a difference

This video comes with a free ebook, Beat Imposter Syndrome. Get your copy here. https://thinklearnsucceed.com.au/beat-imposter-syndrome-ebook-2/ You became a manager or business owner because you want to make a difference. But now you’re juggling paperwork and managing crisis after crisis. You’re not having any impact at all. Learn why this happens to talented people – and how to shift out of this frustrating cycle.

 

 

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5 factors helping you perform under pressure

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to thrive under pressure while others crumble? According to the Yerkes-Dodson Law, there is a sweet spot for stress where we are most productive. Too much or too little stress can lead to negative outcomes.

The Yerkes-Dodson Law was discovered in 1908 by psychologists Robert Yerkes and John Dodson. It states that there is a relationship between arousal and performance, with optimal performance occurring at an intermediate level of arousal. The article explores several factors related to this law such as motivation, multitasking, anxiety and fatigue, all of which can affect performance.

There are three factors that influence how we respond to stress:

  1. The task itself – some tasks are more challenging than others and require more focus and energy.
  2. The person – some people are more easily aroused than others and find tasks more stimulating.
  3. The environment – some environments are more stimulating than others and can cause us to be more aroused.

The Yerkes-Dodson Law helps us understand how to get the best out of our employees. Motivation, for example, is essential for getting the most out of any task; however if motivation levels become too high it can lead to burnout or exhaustion. On the other hand, multitasking can be beneficial in certain circumstances but when it is done excessively it can cause mistakes due to lack of focus on individual tasks. Similarly, anxiety can positively drive performance but if it becomes too intense then it will start to hinder progress instead. Finally, fatigue should also be managed properly as working long hours without rest or breaks can significantly reduce productivity levels over time.

 

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Overall, the Yerkes-Dodson Law provides useful insights into how stress and other factors interact with one another to influence performance levels amongst managers, business owners and supervisors. By understanding what triggers these reactions and how best to address them accordingly they will be able develop better strategies for improving their results in both the short term and long term. The Yerkes-Dodson law is an important piece of information for anyone in a leadership position. By understanding how this law works, you can create a work environment that is optimal for your employees’ needs and help them achieve their full potential.

Find out more in the original article here: https://www.healthline.com/health/yerkes-dodson-law#factors

This article summary was created by Eleanor Shakiba

Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference. 

 

Be bold and lead in difficult times

People expect leaders to be bold during tough times.. This is where confidence coaching comes in. Personalised coaching sessions boost your confidence. You’ll focus on your specific needs. You can overcome the anxieties holding you back. No one is born with confidence, which means that anyone can become bolder.

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High-impact leaders aren’t just resilient. They are wise.

You’ve got boundless resilience and are fabulous at overcoming obstacles. But do you have the wisdom to be a leader who makes a difference? You see, having mental stamina isn’t always enough. You can have all the motivation and grit in the world, but you still need wisdom to stand out at work! After all, wisdom give you immediate credibility, impact and confidence.

What is wisdom, anyway?

Wisdom is a combination of learning and experience. Your background, memories and skills contribute to your wisdom. Where does wisdom come from? Psychologists have shown it comes from being flexible. Leaders who are wise try new things. They know that change is inevitable – and they accept this. They  are mentally flexible. This gives them the edge and helps them make a real difference at work and in the world. Successful managers and business owners develop wisdom by being lifelong learners. They are continuously:

  • Training themselves and their teams
  • Coaching and mentoring
  • Being coached and mentored themselves
  • Reading and enquiring
  • Extending their skills and building on their natural strengths

 

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How can you become a wise leader?

Surprisingly few managers and business owners show the flexibility and adaptability that distinguishes leaders who make a difference. That worries me, but fortunately Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) gives leaders dozens of tools for becoming wiser and more flexible.

  1. The Meta Model
  2. The Milton Model
  3. Anchoring
  4. Reframing
  5. Ericksonian storytelling

It’s no secret that number  5 is my personal favourite. It’s a unique  process for using stories to create wisdom – not just within yourself, but also in your team. Milton Erickson was a famous hypnotist. He used cleverly crafted stories to trigger learning. Most of these were designed to promote flexible, generative thinking.

If you’d like to find out how to use inspiring storytelling techniques, please get in touch!  I would love to help you and your team move out of ‘fixed mindset’ thinking and into generative learning mode.

This article was created by Eleanor Shakiba

Eleanor is a leadership trainer and success coach. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference.  Since discovering her passion for training and development, Eleanor has trained more than 60,000 people. She delivers face-to-face workshops for corporates, online masterclasses for leaders and Positive Psychology retreats for trainers, HR practitioners and leaders. 

 

 

 

6 ways to think about time… and how they impact your confidence

Does your constant planning keep you from getting anything done in the present? Does your frequent worrying about the past keep you from trying new things? These are examples of how your perspective of time can impact your confidence. Thanks to research published on PsychologyToday.com, you can now gain a better perspective.

Everyone has a different perspective when it comes to the passage of time. Some people are more worried about the past while others focus on the future. According to Rosemary KM Sword and Philip Zimbardo PhD, these differences impact every aspect of your life.

The authors categorise people based on their time perspective. Someone who is ‘past negative’ tends to focus on negative events or thoughts from the past. This may include traumatic events or moments of failure. The negative thoughts tend to keep them from seeing a brighter future.

Someone who is ‘present fatalistic’ is rooted in the present but believes that they’ve got no control over their environment. As with past negative people, present fatalistic people tend to suffer from low self-esteem. They struggle to see their own self-worth. The authors also describe ‘extreme future’ people. This group includes people that are too busy planning to enjoy the present. All three of the time perspectives discussed can limit your opportunities.

So, what’s the best time perspective? The authors argue that the best perspective is balanced. When your time perspective is balanced, you can use your imagination in exciting new ways. You spend less time dwelling on negative thoughts from the past and fears of the future.

The authors used their theories to help treat war veterans suffering from posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD). However, balancing your time perspective is beneficial for everyone. Whether you’re more focused on the past, present, or future, your time perspective may be holding you back.

As mentioned in the article, the best perspective is a balanced one. The authors of the article also offer a few examples of how to balance your perspective. If you’re stuck in the past, you need to replace your negative memories with positive ones.

If you’re stuck in the present and feel that you’ve got no control over anything, you may also start to feel like an imposter. Try practicing more self-compassion. Give yourself the freedom to enjoy fun activities and accept yourself for how you are. Several of these suggestions align with common neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) techniques.

Changing the way you think about the past, present, and future could hold the key to your happiness. Your time perspective largely influences your confidence. If you want to learn more about how to beat imposter syndrome, explore my one-to-one coaching and online courses at https://thinklearnsucceed.com.au.

 

 

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Over-thinking: the curse of the ‘imposter leader’

Attention managers. Feeling like you’re not really qualified to lead your team can be incredibly stressful. It causes rumination and over-thinking. And that feeds imposter syndrome. But there is a way to build authentic confidence as a leader. By changing out-dated thinking habits and responses to change, leaders can thrive and succeed. Without feeling like a fake. In this inspiring video, NLP coach Eleanor Shakiba explains how to use Neuro Linguistic Programming to quit the rumination habit and build deep confidence. Eleanor offers a great explanation of the role over-thinking plays in imposter syndrome and how to overcome it. Yes! With self-awareness and practice, you can build complete confidence and stop letting self-doubt get in the way of success.

 

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3 habits of leaders who make a difference

This video comes with a free ebook, Beat Imposter Syndrome. Get your copy here. https://thinklearnsucceed.com.au/beat-imposter-syndrome-ebook-2/ Leadership is not just about giving orders and expecting people to follow them – it’s about having an influence that inspires others. Learn 3 habits of successful leaders, so you can have a positive impact on those around you. Find out how to think strategically and speak influentially so your words have more power, learn how being confident can help you stand out from the crowd and discover how to  focus on what matters, instead of getting bogged down or overwhelmed by ‘urgent’ issues.

 

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3 ways your mind distorts thoughts about the future

What are futures fallacies, and why do they matter for managers? Futures fallacies are beliefs or perceptions about the future that influence our decisions in the present, but they’re not always accurate. For example, just because you believe that the future will be a certain way, doesn’t mean that it will be.

There are three main futures fallacies: survivorship bias, technological determinism, and paradigm paralysis. Survivorship bias is when you think that something is more successful than it really is, because you only see the successes and not the failures. Technological determinism is when you think that technology will inevitably lead to certain outcomes, and paradigm paralysis is when you can’t make decisions because you don’t know what the future will hold.

For managers, business owners, and supervisors, it’s important to be aware of these fallacies and learn how to avoid them. By doing so, you can make better decisions based on a more accurate understanding of the future. So, what can you do to protect yourself from these fallacies?

  1. Be Aware: The first step is to be aware of the biases that can affect our decision-making. This includes knowing what they are, how they work, and when they are likely to pop up.
  2. Question Your Assumptions: Don’t just accept things at face value. When making decisions, ask yourself whether your assumptions are reasonable and whether there is evidence to support them.
  3. Use Data-Driven Decision-Making: Use data whenever possible to back up your decisions. This will help reduce the effects of bias and emotion on your decision-making process.
  4. Seek Expert Opinion: Get input from experts who can help you understand complex situations and make better decisions.
  5. Practice Critical Thinking: Train yourself to be skeptical of information and don’t take anything at face value. Ask questions and probe beneath the surface to get a better understanding of what is really going on.

 

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These fallacies can have a big impact on our work. For example, if you think that technology is going to automate all our jobs, you might not invest in training or development. Or if you think that the future is going to be full of uncertainty, you might hesitate to make any decisions at all.

By following these tips, you can reduce the chances of being led astray by futures fallacies and make better decisions for our businesses and our lives.

Find out more in the original article here: https://jfsdigital.org/articles-and-essays/vol-25-no-4-june-2021/futures-fallacies-what-they-are-and-what-we-can-do-about-them/

This article summary was created by Eleanor Shakiba

Eleanor is a leadership trainer, success coach and people skills expert. She helps managers and business owners build thriving teams and organisations, using tools from Positive Psychology. She's trained more than 60,000 people during her career as a corporate trainer and professional development consultant. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference. 

 

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4 sure-fire signs you’re overworking

Ironically, I wrote this at 2 a.m. However, it is still an important point for you take on. If you believe successful managers and business owners are constantly busy, think again. Yes, many people feel they should work 24/7 and they must be constantly focused on success. There’s a name for this feeling: “imposter syndrome” and it is the biggest cause of overwork in managers and business owners today. High-impact leaders DO NOT MAKE OVERWORKING A HABIT. Instead, they use three core habits to stay focused on making a difference.

It’s time to get real. Being busy is NOT a sign you’re successful. In fact, it’s a sign you’re ineffective. High-impact leaders don’t have mile-long to do lists or fully booked diaries. Instead, they have strategic plans and  to- notch teams. You can’t have either of those things if you’re overworking. But how can you tell if you ARE overworking? Here are the top  4 signs I advise  my clients to watch out for.

The to-do list that never ends

This is a sure sign you’re working reactively. You see, effective leaders don’t ever use To Do Llists. They use plans. What’s the difference? To Do  lists are made up on the fly. Plans are well thought out and developed in advance.

Staying switched on 24/7

The second sign you’re overworking is struggling to wind down after work. This is really common problem for high-achieving people. However, it is not a badge of honour! If you’re constantly thinking about work. it’s a sign you’re overworking. You need to stop now. Go back to your hobbies, your family or your friends. Believe me, you can still succeed even when you are human! All it takes is confidence and assertiveness!

 

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Feeling resentful and put-out

Yep. It is  less obvious, but it is still a sign you’re overworking. For example, it might seem like you’re the only person who is committed to doing a good job. If you’re feeling this way, you’re probably taking too much on and working excessive hours. Sound familiar?

Knowing you’re overworking

The fourth sign you’re overworked in  bleeding obvious: you know you’re overworked. Sadly, many talented managers and professionals e keep going despite this realisation. Eeek! I can tell you this a guaranteed way to burn yourself out.

So, how do you slow down and stop overworking? Learn to drive your own brain. Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP is a great tool for doing this).  With NLP, you can manage your own thinking and emotional states. You can quit handling everything yourself and stop feeling like an imposter. So, if the 4 symptoms of overwork resonate for you, act now. Learn some NLP and focus on having an impact instead of being busy 24/7.

This article was created by Eleanor Shakiba

Eleanor is a leadership trainer and success coach. Her mission is inspiring talented people to become leaders who make a difference.  Since discovering her passion for training and development, Eleanor has trained more than 60,000 people. She delivers face-to-face workshops for corporates, online masterclasses for leaders and Positive Psychology retreats for trainers, HR practitioners and leaders.